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Best Time of My Life

"Best Time of My Life"

It was June 15, and in two days I would be turning thirty. I was insecure about entering a new decade of my life and feared that my best years were now behind me.

My daily routine included going to the gym for a workout before going to work. Every morning I would see my friend Nicholas at the gym. He was seventy-nine years old and in terrific shape. As I greeted Nicholas on this particular day, he noticed I wasn't full of my usual vitality and asked if there was anything wrong. I told him I was feeling anxious about turning thirty. I wondered how I would look back on my life once I reached Nicholas's age, so I asked him, "What was the best time of your life?"

Without hesitation, Nicholas replied, "Well, Joe, this is my philosophical answer to your philosophical question:

"When I was a child in Austria and everything was taken care of for me and I was nurtured by my parents, that was the best time of my life."

"When I was going to school and learning the things I know today, that was the best time of my life."

"When I got my first job and had responsibilities and got paid for my efforts, that was the best time of my life."

"When I met my wife and fell in love, that was the best time of my life. "

"The Second World War came, and my wife and I had to flee Austria to save our lives. When we were together and safe on a ship bound for North America, that was the best time of my life."

"When we came to Canada and started a family, that was the best time of my life. "

"When I was a young father, watching my children grow up, that was the best time of my life. "

"And now, Joe, I am seventy-nine years old. I have my health, I feel good and I am in love with my wife just as I was when we first met. This is the best time of my life."
--Author unknown

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Anonymous said…
over the past weeks I was so distressed about turning 34, I termed myself having a midlife crisis - not knowing what i'm doing, where i'm heading plus seeing more wrinkles on my face. Glad that I did bookmark this blog of yours, and I'm glad that I'm reading this posts of yours again. It makes me realise this is indeed the best time of my life ... turning 34 is not about getting older, but it's about getting wiser, gaining more confidence, being more optimistic ... thanks for the wonderfoo collection of stories / articles, and thanks for being there for me.
Saturday, May 10, 2008 3:45:00 PM
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